Aug
11

Address in QLD parliament

Thank you for the opportunity to speak to you in my capacity as a researcher, counsellor and educator of more than 2 decades to give a voice to the many hundreds of post-abortive women and men I have spoken to during that time.   

It is timely that we are having this discussion on abortion and the way its current availability impacts women.  It is unfortunate that it is the wrong discussion, one that is not based on the best available evidence, but on ideological misinformation. 

There is clear and unequivocal evidence that up to 20% of women suffer measurable, serious, and prolonged mental health adverse effects after abortion, including depression, anxiety and suicide.  Research tells us that they often cope with these emotional issues with significant increases in alcohol and drug use.  

While some dismiss this 20% as in irrelevant minority, when we are talking about 80,000 abortions annually, this equates to around 16,000 women each and every year being measurably harmed.  The cumulative effect on families, communities, and the economy are enormous, but unlikely to ever be accurately determined because of the silence and stigma that surrounds abortion, particularly abortion harm. 

This 20% does not include the even higher percentage of women who are forced to live with ongoing grief and regret that doesn’t meet a measurable mental health criteria but which can be debilitating.  

We know there are specific risk factors to predict mental health harm to women.   These include:

  • Being young (teen or young adult)
  • Being unsure about the abortion decision
  • Making a decision in conflict with personal values
  • Feeling coerced or pressured by people or circumstances
  • Feeling a sense of connection to their unborn or believing that the unborn is a human being
  • Having pre-existing mental health problems
  • Immaturity, emotional instability, high anxiety, or difficulty coping
  • Being in a conflicted, unsupportive or abusive relationship

 With 95% of all abortions being undertaken for psycho-social reasons most of the women fit one of these categories.  For the most part these women are physically and mentally healthy and undergoing a procedure for which there is no evidence of health benefit.  

If other elective procedures in these numbers were being undertaken on healthy women who often experience pressure, with no risk factor screening and resulting in this level of adverse effect, we’d be banning it, not making it less restrictive.

Instead of promoting abortion as a solution to domestic violence, we should be discussing how better to support women to leave violent relationships and how to ensure violent men do not intrude on future relationships.

Instead of promoting abortion as a solution for young women who want to finish their educations, not tell their parents they are pregnant, or are just embarking on a career, we need to enact and enforce laws that ensure that pregnant and parenting women will not be discriminated against, and will be practically supported in educational and professional sectors.

Instead of telling women that abortion is a solution to their housing problems, their financial problems, their mental health problems; all of which are risk factors predisposing women to abortion harm, we should be creating communities where women can be supported and nurtured into parenthood. 

Instead of being reactive and enacting legislation based on the misinformation that women are having trouble accessing abortion we should be worrying about why women are not being effectively screened for risk factors or coercion, nor offered genuine supportive alternatives to abortion.

What is being proposed in this Bill is not a progressive step on this issue.   In the USA, the majority of states are legislating greater restrictions around abortion in light of the growing evidence of harm, yet we continue to move in the opposite direction, pressured by a vocal, misleading, ideological minority.

In 2008 Victoria enacted the most liberal abortion laws in the Western world.  These laws have had no impact on what abortion advocates misleadingly state are the issues:   that women need greater access to abortions to address their psychosocial concerns and that they and doctors are fearful of the law in doing so.  

The evidence does not support these assertions at all.  Even the most cursory perusal of social media confirms that the majority of women have no problems accessing abortion, and are unaware that there are even legal issues associated with it.      

The laws have however ensured that women have less recourse to legal support if they are not appropriately screened or if they are harmed.  The law has restricted doctors from talking to their own patients about the potential of harm if they do not wish to refer their patient for abortion.   This means women are less informed, not more informed. 

My current PhD research is discovering that for practitioners of many types, talking about abortion is severely hampered by ideological concerns, often based on misinformation.  Women are less likely to be offered alternatives or support when the only place they source information is from an abortion provider who has a vested interest in the abortion taking place.   

The wider availability of medical abortion is highlighting the coercive nature of abortion from both women’s circumstances and from within clinics themselves.  I delivered a paper on case studies of coercion within Australian abortion clinics at a recent international medical conference. 

The following quotes are from 2 of the cases presented; both sought medical abortion in clinics in 2015.   

‘I said I wasn’t sure, and the doctor told me to take the pill or get out, so I took it’   and

  ‘I had the tablet in my mouth and I was crying and saying I wasn’t sure.  He said you could hardly bring a baby into the world when you so obviously don’t love or want it can you.   I was horrified and devastated.  I swallowed the pill.’    

I hear from an average of 2 women a month like these women… desperately seeking to reverse a medical abortion they began, lacking support and terribly misinformed.

These are the issues that should be discussed and addressed.  Women are being coerced by other people, by circumstances, by discriminatory practises and by abortion providers to undertake abortions they don’t want and don’t need.

They are then sold these practises as the only means to achieve autonomy and freedom.   

In Victoria for the last decade around half of all late term abortions have been undertaken for psychosocial reasons.  Women undergoing late term abortions have a significantly higher risk of psychological and physical harm. 

Women whose unborn babies are diagnosed with congenital abnormalities, or even suspected of having such abnormalities tell of being greatly pressured toward termination, using the very compassion and nurture they instinctively feel toward their unborn children against them…   told that termination is the compassionate, loving and best thing to do.  

We don’t tell them their grief will be more complex, their risk of psychological harm increased, and that they will be silenced because of their part in the decision making process.  They are rarely offered an alternative as there are only a handful of perinatal hospice units in the country. 

In 2010/2011 in Victoria 18 babies were aborted after 28 weeks with 1 of these at 37 weeks, all for psychosocial indicators.  Healthy babies, of healthy mothers.  This cannot be the best we can do.  

The discussion we need begins with how it is we allowed an ideology to drive us to this point, where we have no regard for our own humanity, and certainly no regard for the real experiences of women.          This is an ideology that betrays women. 

Women deserve better. 

Aug
01

The baby business

I watched this story on morning news last year and wondered how many people would hear past the sad story of cancer and infertility to the implications of what the story is promoting.   While I have empathy for Sally Obermeder’s circumstance, both her cancer ordeal and subsequent infertility, the way in which she proposes Australia addresses situations such as hers should sound a cautionary alarm for all women.

Sally has engaged a US woman to act as a surrogate to provide her a child.  The US woman has had 4 of Sally’s embryos implanted in her womb with only the final one resulting in a continuing pregnancy.  Sally is using her situation to promote commercial surrogacy in Australia, stating that not offering it is an act of discrimination toward women with fertility problems or lacking a relationship.

Sit with that for a minute.   If women cannot buy wombs for rent, to carry their children, she proposes that they are discriminated against.

She goes on to talk about the fact that the actual money that is given to the woman is not that much, after all the biggest expenses are in the IVF procedures and associated medical costs themselves.   

IVF is a growing and successful enterprise which attracts money making investors.   These are people with an absolute vested interest in increasing IVF rates and costs so that they can make money. 

So what Sally is suggesting is that women should endure surgical interventions that are not without the potential of harm, spend nine months carrying an unborn child, then give birth and hand the child over to the rightful parent for a small amount of money while big investors make their thousands.

She is not only suggesting this should happen in Australia; she is saying that if it doesn’t happen it is an act of discrimination.

I wonder what this will mean if we buy that line on this issue?   What if women don’t want to carry babies for other women, even for money?  I wonder how long they will be able to say no, if in fact we view it as discriminatory not to?   It isn’t difficult to work out which women will be first in line to endure the physical and emotional pain of bearing children for other women for a bit of extra money if they are living in challenging economic circumstances.

Babies should never be made available for sale.   Nor should women’s bodies be viewed as commodities in either their entirety or their parts.  Wombs for rent and babies for sale is what Sally wants.   No matter how sad her story, we should make a loud and clear stand against any moves toward such a society.     

Please educate yourself on this issue.  Learn how surrogacy exploits women, using their bodies and body parts, makes commodities of the lives of children, and devalues all in the process.   

Renate Klein’s new book is a must read.

Get your copy today.

RK Surrogacy

 

 

Jul
18

White Ribbon espousing uninformed abortion ideology

Apparently if you are a man who wants to support White Ribbon, you better toe the ideological line of abortion advocacy, regardless of the evidence that large numbers of abortions are unwanted by women.

Queensland MP, Mark Robinson dared to suggest that: 

“As a White Ribbon man I have pledged to not ignore ‪#‎DV‬ against women, but to stand up against it. Another reason why I can’t support the Pyne-Labor Abortion Bill as it removes protections for women against violent partners who are forcing them to abort the babies they want to keep.”

So Mark Robinson believes that abortion is not the answer to domestic violence and this is considered so outrageous that this self-righteous organisation dares to censor all its supporters.   

Pay attention to this for a moment.   You cannot support White Ribbon unless you also support abortion.

This is in spite of the fact that 95% of all abortions are undertaken as a result of a complete failure to meet the real needs of women.   Large numbers of women have abortions because men make them, or men encourage them, or beat them, or threaten to withdraw support, or because men simply don’t want to be fathers.

Large numbers of women have abortions because they are terrified of being tied to a violent man and the best thing we can offer them in that situation is the ‘choice’ of abortion, rather than protection from the violence.

Women have abortions because workplaces refuse to provide flexibility for them to have actual choice, universities tell young women they must choose between their education and their children.  Women have abortions because they have no money, or no support, or no place to live, or mental health problems, or their baby may die and they are never offered perinatal hospice care.

Most of these women never choose at all.   There is no choice if there is only one choice.   EVER

For many women abortion IS a violence perpetrated against them, but not for White Ribbon.   White Ribbon are appearing more and more like other organisations, full of rhetoric and politics, toeing the ideological line with total and complete disregard for women at all. 

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